Are ties to be severed?

I am back. Pretty soon after, huh? I was going to rant about the Wife's sister (and brother). It is just too easy a subject and I could go on forever. They are walking illustrations of the hazards of smoking while pregnant. The reality is that I sized this "woman" up 22 years ago and she keeps proving me correct. The dirty "bitch" is just toxic.

This woman comes with her 8 year old daughter from Dayton. Presumably, she is here to see some family that came in from LA. Whether the cousin from LA wanted to see her is open for debate. Of course, SIL does not stay at a hotel, she stays with us. Keep in mind, as I know I have mentioned many times earlier, she is a P - I - G, pig. That is so damn ironic as she keeps kosher and has become more observant than her husband, who was raised in an Orthodox home.

The other funny part is that she has bastardized the religion. She is vapid and empty. Yet, she seems to think that going to synagogue regularly absolves her of that crap and makes up for her proclivity to judge all people. Of course, she judges using her standards, which also she does not measure up to (then again, she would be loathe to admit that...or anything else for that matter).

Long story short, but she treats the Wife with the same sense of disrespect she treated her own parents. Keep in mind, the cunt, man I should not have said that but if the tampon fits...., was MAD that her parents sold their home and bought their condominium, short lived that it was, because they did not see fit to consult with her and her husband. Imagine, adults, who raised these fucking losers (and they are, trust me you would not have been friends with either of these nebbishkites in high school or university, at least I know that I would not have and my standards are the ONLY ones that count around here)(if you do not like that, get your own fucking blog) cannot be trusted to live their own lives without consulting their addle minded daughter who lives in Dayton, Ohio.

It seemed to me then and now, their only objection was that they lost a free place to stay that provided them with free childcare and meals, too. It would appear that being a neurologist in the US does not provide with enough class or wealth to stay in a hotel. In fact, his parents, who still have a home of their own, will NOT have them stay there (very telling). They chose the place where the people were compliant and willing to suck back on the shit sandwiches served.

The best part is that they left the place like it was their own home...a shit house. Of course, the woman in whose home they were a GUEST was a fastidious cleaner. This disarray in her home was visibly disconcerting for her and her demented husband. And of course, this look was ignored by both "adult" children. I guess if they cannot shit on you and have you take it, you are of no use to them.

Anyway, she stays with us. She had been staying with us a bit while she came in alone when her mother was ill and father was much the same way. Yet, she seems to complain about the heat, the food (as she rifles through our pantry and leaves half eaten bananas on the counter). In fact, April of 2008, they were in for Passover, and like an idiot, we (the Wife/doormat, really) allow her to borrow our car. I get the car back with a banana peel in it. I confront her about that and she has the temerity to go on the attack. That does not play with me (you will find a bit more humor as I get to the end of the present story, too). Like I have said, she is a fucking pig.

Keep in mind, too, that in all these "visits" and stays in our basement, she has NEVER taken a shower. She will go and run, but has never showered. I sit in wonder how my brother in law, her husband, could have fucked that dirty cunt at least 7 times. Then again, one look at him, and without flashing his wallet, though his balls are in her purse, I understand. It was the only way he could get laid.

Anyway, we get to this weekend. The Wife, looking for some support from her sister, gets the usual put downs. Funny, but if it were me, I would have thrown her dirty ass on the cold porch, but I am family asshole. The daughter was complaining about blue light from the Wii bothering her while she tried to sleep and the cold. Her dipshit mother decides to further impose by asking if her daughter could sleep with the Lad. That was rebuffed. It was then asked that we put the blow up mattress in our bedroom and she sleep with us. Again, the Wife knew to say "no". The Wife suggested they sleep on our main level with greater heat but that was rebuffed as there is no television in that area or room.

Then, it began, the bitch, in a snit, says she will stay in a hotel. The bluff was called. She packed up and took all their shit as they went to visit their aunt (I have mentioned her here, and not in a positive manner, too) and see her in laws. She was to return the car (our car that she borrowed, not my car, but the Wife's car). She leaves with "she cannot take the yelling, the anger" from my Wife. Then she says that the Wife needs help and that she lost her parents, too. The best line was that she was the most non-judgemental person.

The Wife cried (I was laughing at how moronic her sister sounds and is). I put it to the Wife this way, and she seems to have agreed, ask yourself this question "if she were not related to you, would you be friends with her?" Her answer was a resounding "NO". I said that was that, so stop trying to get something/attention from her as it will never happen. She is a cold fish and cannot provide you with any emotional enjoyment. She is all talk and no action.

The best part is the day goes on. The Wife emails her to tell her to pick up her running shoes that she left in the house (I would say on purpose but that would be too intelligent for her). The email reply is that her in laws won't have her, so can they spend the night at our place. Then she texts the Wife wondering if we could come home earlier from my mother's house (Sunday night dinner with my family). The bitch has no shame....no pride either as it turns out.

I am laughing so hard thinking about it. I have absolutely NO respect for her. The damn toothless dog. All bark, unintelligent bark at that, but no bite.

It has taken the Wife 22 years to come around to my way of thinking. I have been proven correct, not that I ever doubted it. As a follow up, I did not say goodbye to her as the sound of her voice and her presence now makes my skin crawl.

The only downside is that I have to see her in about 6 or 7 weeks but she will NOT be staying in MY home for a long, long, long time.

Ciao! Thanks for letting me vent!